When it comes to sex, it is never easy to know when to start. I was 15 years old the first time I had sex, and it was way too early. There is a lot of pressure out their for you to have sex at an early age, but I am not sure that this is the right thing to do at all. Lots of teenagers get involved in sexual relationships without knowing what sex is really all about. They expect their sex lives to be full of excitement, but that is not true. When I joined London escorts and started to listen to other people’s stories, I realised that we all have sex too early.
Most of the girls that I work with at London escorts did have sex at a very early age, and none of them think that it has done them any favours. A couple of the girls that I worked with at another great escorts service, think that it has given them a kind of strange opinion about love. I would agree with that, and I often find myself confusing sex with love. I still jump into bed with a guy way to soon when I know that I should be waiting. It is a little bit like sex is the only thing that I have got to hang on to him.
I was not emotionally ready to have sex when I was 15 years old. Like most of the other girls here at London escorts, I had not really talked about sex that much with my parents. Yes, I knew what physically happened, but I did not know how sex could make you feel. I think that was the biggest challenge when it came to sex. If I had waited, I would been a little bit more emotionally mature and been able to cope with the emotional aspects of sex a lot better.
In many ways, I don’t think that you are physically ready for sex neither. You don’t understand the importance of actually wanting to have sex. You sort of do it, to have it over and done with. I am not the only one saying that. Most of the girls that I work with at London escorts say the same thing. They say that they just did to get over with and that was that. It did not work for me, and I felt like I had more or less been violated.
When I meet young people these days, I always tell them not to rush into having sex. It is clear that the schools are still letting a lot of students down by not explaining all of the aspects of sex with them. Emotionally sex is a really big thing and I think that many girls at London escorts who are young, still have that to realise. It took me ages to appreciate that I don’t to offer a guy sex. There is not such a thing as the third date rule or anything like that. If you don’t feel like having sex with somebody, simply say no and that is not for you at the moment. Perhaps you should love somebody before you have sex with them.